I can understand why Thomas Ball doused himself with gasoline and set himself
on fire. There was no escape. Nobody cared. This was the ultimate call for
attention, a scream into the universe for all the world to hear about the plight
of fathers. A father of three, Ball correctly noted that “we are no longer
fathers, just piggy banks.”Ball was faced yet again with jail for a child support amount he could not
pay. He wrote in his last statement, “I could have made a phone call or two and
borrowed the money. But I am done being bullied for being a man.”When one engages in criminal enterprises, one expects jail to possibly be a
part of their life. But nobody expects that a hard working stiff or a man who
has served 21 years in the armed forces would be treated like a criminal and
jailed for being poor and a father.Find a poor mother and she is the elevated “single mother,” and society
scrambles to give her Section 8 housing, free attorneys, and welfare benefits.
Non-profits for her benefit abound.Find a poor father and he is a “deadbeat dad.” The Supreme Court said in a
recent case, “Seventy percent of child support arrears nationwide are owed by
parents with either no reported income or income of $10,000 per year or
less.”
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Another victim of a biased and criminal system....a system who cares more about money that it does about "The best interest of the children"....or the non-custodial parent and their extended family!
....a system that is not humane.


So what if anything is going on to try and fight for parental rights? Right now I'm paying child support and alimony. My son is constantly telling me he would rather live with me than his mom. And my ex has no problem alluding to the fact that at any point she can move 10 hours away if she's not satisfied with the way things are where she lives.
ReplyDeleteSo yeah I can understand this guys plight. All you can do as a father is try and enjoy the very little time you get to spend with your child and keep sending in paychecks to the woman that decided to run out of the relationship.